Helpful Hints to Freeing Yourself from Fear of Betrayal

Nanette Geiger, Law of Attraction Specialist , writes… …

“I do not wish to be hurt continuously, but I truly wish to be with my soul mate. How can I feel more confident about love”?

You have two ways to pursue here. 1) You can stall until you’ve had enough time in between the pain in your previous relationship or 2) start moving on and letting go of the past. Since you want to reach your soul mate, then I’d do the work in releasing. It is faster and easier than you’d imagine. Acquiring help from a certified relationship life coach can make your path smoother.

Getting guidance to do release work is a way of releasing and letting go from the past. Think of emotional release and letting go as forgiveness. You are creating new area for the amazing, new, healthy, and whole relationship to show up into.

I realize some of you are saying “Yeah but, I don’t think he really should be forgiven for his actions. He wronged me and that’s just that”! The energy it takes to hold a grudge takes up your space. You’re allowing your happiness to be drained away from you. It is a slow trickle in your energy field and over time, it will deplete you, if it hasn’t already. Furthermore, that slow energy trickle prevents you from having all of your power focused in the present moment. When you don’t have your power in the moment, do you think you’re going to be a powerful, deliberate creator? It makes it that much more impairing. Take your full power back by releasing and letting go of your past relationship, of judgements that burden you, clutter up your energy field and block you from going forward to having the life you were meant to live. You can speed up the process immensely by receiving help from a life coach.

I have found that the idea of forgiving can be a loaded one. Firstly, I am not speaking of the type of forgiving where we were excusing someone’s poor behavior. It is essential to have healthy boundaries set for you. And to know how you feel about who you want in your life and who you don’t, how you desire to spend your time and with whom. It is essential to realize what will work for you and what does not. Get Relationship Life Coaching and Advice for Women today!

Until you clear the area of pain, you’ll either create more pain or have a difficult time being completely fulfilled with love. So first, clear out the old hurt, then release and let in new love.